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Sep 21Liked by Bronwyn Winter

Marquis de Sade! Thank you for highlighting him! Is pornography/sex addiction inherited I wonder? And how deep do we women/feminists/lesbians have to delve into the dark regions of toxic masculinity! Half a million men every minute of the day keep perpetrating this act of hatred against women, while women saying NO to this get burnt on the stakes all over again. Gruelling times ahead.. but we're not dead...yet. Keep writing Bronwyn. Much appreciated despite the horrid subject matter.

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Sep 23Liked by Bronwyn Winter

Late to this breathtakingly brilliant piece. It deserves the widest possible audience.

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Thank you, Bronwyn, for your clear telling of this story. It brings to mind to other stories. Todd Akin, a would-be US Senator claimed that in reference to pregnancy resulting from rape, "First of all, from what I understand from doctors, that is really rare. If it is a legitimate rape, the female body has ways to try and shut that whole thing down."

And then there are the trans widows who when they protest against the men they married "transitioning" to becoming women (sic), or they try to leave the marriage, they are met with criticism and opprobrium for not supporting the "authenticity" of their husbands by refusing to remain in a "lesbian" relationship.

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Yes indeed. That story about Todd Akin and 'legitimate' rape is appalling not the least because of its absurdity, but unsurprising, in a 'she asked for it' culture. In any case all rape is illegitimate. But Akin is surely a guy after Louis Bonnet's heart.

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